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#363: Movie Mondays – Love Comes Softly May 28, 2012

Cover of "Love Comes Softly"

Cover of Love Comes Softly

Year: 2003

Genre: Romance/Western/Drama

Description from www.IMDb.com: A young woman on her way to a new life in the 1800’s suddenly finds herself a widow. Now she must live with a recently widowed young man and his daughter. Can any of them find love again? 

Wife: For our last movie review, I wanted to choose a movie about marriage.  Husband suggested War of the Roses.  Really?  A cynical movie about divorce?  I don’t think so.  Instead, he agreed to review Love Comes Softly.  Directed by Michael Landon, Jr., this is one of my favorite movies.  I have secretly wanted to own the entire series and I am not a movie collector.  What do I love about it?  It is clean, engaging, sweet, and faith-based.  And, it’s a love story!  Kathryn Heigl is excellent as usual. My husband teases me about this movie.  He calls it “Love dies a slow and agonizing death.”  Yes, he is both cynical and funny. 

Husband: I liked the storyline.  The male lead was a good man.  He was God-fearing and had the correct priorities.  He was patient and he waited.  There were no explosions so I only gave it a 5.  

Husband-Wife Compatibility: 7.5 (Wife gave it a 10)    

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#356: Movie Mondays – The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo May 21, 2012

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (2011 film)

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (2011 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Year: 2011

Genre: Crime/Drama/Mystery

Description from IMDb.com: Journalist Mikael Blomkvist is aided in his search for a woman who has been missing for forty years by Lisbeth Salander, a young computer hacker.

Wife: I had seen people reading the book on the subway for a long time before I read it.  I read the trilogy but liked the first book best.  We saw the original Swedish version when it first came out. We liked that a lot. I loved that the actors didn’t look like movie stars.  The English version was good but different.  It had a different feel to it.  The Swedish version felt more authentic.  There’s something about hearing the Swedish language that let’s you get a better feel for the place, sort of like listening to music from Iceland like Bjork.  Although reading subtitles can be bothersome.  I liked both versions and am glad I saw them.  It’s such a chilling and interesting story.  The book was excellent.

Husband: The two versions are easily different.  The American version is darker and more realistic.  The actor who plays Lisbeth Salander has more edge in the American version.  As far as Mikael Blomkvist’s character, who can compare to Daniel Craig?

I was surprised.  Typically remakes are not as potent as the original.  For example, Psycho, 3:10 to Yuma.  The American version was a better film.

Husband-Wife Compatibility Rating: 8


#354: I will never leave you May 19, 2012

When we were courting, I told my husband that I was looking for someone to stay.  He told me that he wanted to stay and that he would.  He still tells me, “I will never leave you.”   I believe him.


#349: Movie Mondays – 3:10 to Yuma May 14, 2012

Year: 2007


Genre: Action/Crime/Drama


Description from http://www.IMDb.com: A small-time rancher agrees to hold a captured outlaw who’s awaiting a train to go to court in Yuma. A battle of wills ensues as the outlaw tries to psych out the rancher.


Wife: I really liked this movie.  I am not a big fan of Westerns, but I do like good movies. I liked both this and the remake of True Grit.  It’s funny that this movie was not categorized as a Western.  I loved the portrayal of father and son and the theme of good and bad men. It drew me in.  I’ve seen it twice now.  It is such a classic.  I have not seen the original but want to.  Plus, it’s got a great title!

Cover of "3:10 to Yuma (Widescreen Editio...


Husband: i liked the movie.  It had  great storyline.  The characters were believable. [OK, my husband said this and I said, “Walter, you say this about every movie.  It’s like you don’t care.”  To which he responded, “Hmmm, you’re catching on.”  Luckily, we only have 2 more movie reviews.  Sorry Walter.]


Husband-Wife Compatibility Rating: 9




#342: Movie Mondays – The 13th Warrior May 7, 2012

Cover of "The 13th Warrior"

Cover of The 13th Warrior

Year: 1999

Genre: Action/Adventure/Fantasy

Description from http://www.IMDb.com: In AD 922, an important emissary who is banished from his homeland. The nomadic outcast comes across a band of Norse warriors who coerce him into joining them when they are summoned to fight mysterious creatures legendary for consuming every living thing in their path. Eventually surrounded by the frightening and ferocious foe, Ibn must conquer his personal fears and help battle the illusive invaders–who emerge out of the shroud of fog in the black of the night.

Wife: This is a movie my husband owns.  One of the many in his vast DVD collection.  Early on in our relationship he would ask me to watch movies and I would immediately react and not like it.  Recently, he was talking about the Vikings and the Russia people.  I was interested and he said, you know that’s what The 13th Warrior is about.  So we watched it and it was great.  A little too much violence for me.  Very interesting story.

Husband:  I like this movie.  I own it and have seen it several times.  Although it is not 100% historical, it is based upon a real time in history.  I liked all the characters and the storyline.  I thought my wife would like it and am pleased that she watched it with me.

Husband-Wife Compatibility Rating: 9.5


#339: Square Dancing May 4, 2012

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Square dancing

Square dancing (Photo credit: voteprime)

The other day husband was sitting on couch watching War of the Worlds (original with Gene Barry).  I came in and there was a square dancing scene on.  I asked my husband if he liked square dancing pretty sure I’d know how he’d answer.  He started shouting square dance calls:

Now couples 1 and 3

go into the middle and back with me

Now couples 2 and 4

go into the middle and do-si–do

The first person that you see

Now couples 2 and 4

go into the middle and back once more

I was thrilled!  I am amazed at all the gems tucked away in my husband’s mind.  I love square dancing!  It brings back memories of  the Father-Daughter square dance in Brownies.   Square dancing is good, clean fun and my husband is a good egg.


#337: Organizing May 3, 2012

Last weekend I was organizing a bit.  I put all the spices in baskets and labeled the tops.  I also cleaned out the cabinet with pots and pans, got rid of pans we don’t use and labeled where they go.

I said to husband, “Isn’t it great to be organized?”

He said, “I like everything where it is.”

Au contraire husband!  Organizing is all about liking where it is.  Only, where it is may be a new and improved spot.  But once a new system is in place, he’ll always know where to find things.


#335: Movie Mondays – Pride and Glory April 30, 2012

Year: 2008

Genre: Crime/Drama/Thriller

Description from http://www.IMDb.com: A saga centered on a multi-generational family of New York City Police officers. The family’s moral codes are tested when Ray Tierney, investigates a case that reveals an incendiary police corruption scandal involving his own brother-in-law. For Ray, the truth is revelatory, a Pandora’s Box that threatens to upend not only the Tierney legacy but the entire NYPD.

Wife: I like crime shows.  Being a Law & Order, this was right up my alley.  Although I thought it was a god movie, I had a hard time liking it.  The subject was disturbing and sometimes hard to watch.  I like Ed Norton and thought he did a great job.  It was a little long but maybe it just felt that way because we started it too late!

Husband:  It was a good film but I found it to be disturbing.  I was happy with the outcome.

Husband-Wife Compatibility Rating: 7.5

”]Cover of "Pride and Glory [Blu-ray]"

#326: He supports his family April 21, 2012

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MANAMA, Bahrain (April 29, 2010) Gunner's Mate...

MANAMA, Bahrain (April 29, 2010) Gunner's Mate 1st Class Juan Rutledge and Sailors assigned to the amphibious transport dock ship USS Mesa Verde (LPD 19) spend the day tutoring and enjoying recreational playtime at the Regional Institute for Active (RIA) School in Bahrain. The community relations project was part of a long-term commitment by Naval Support Activity (NSA) Bahrain to assist the instructors at the RIA School for special needs children. (U.S. Navy photo/Released) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

My husband works hard at his job.  He is also tireless about exploring new ideas to support his family including writing books, tutoring on the side, and creating educational products.  He has big dreams, great ideas and puts work behind them.  I appreciate him and all he does for our family.


#324: He’s a Mama’s Boy April 19, 2012

My husband really loved his Mom.  They always say, marry a man who loves his mother.  It tells you how he feels about women and shows how he’ll treat women.  My husband’s Mom passed away but of course he still loves her.  I love her too even though I never got the chance to meet her.  I love her because my husband does, because she raised a great guy, and because she was a loving and lovely Christian woman.