The other day I did something bad. I kidded around with a salesperson about my husband. It was silly. We were looking at cat food bowls and my husband wanted a larger dog food bowl because it was attractive and spill free. I liked the smaller “cuter” cat food bowls. Altough I did not humiliate my husband and thought I was just poking fun, I was wrong. Why did I do it? Mainly to get my way and get the bowls I wanted. A couple of self-corrections here: 1) could I have let him get the bowls he wanted? Did I really care that much? Not really. 2) Better next time to discuss with my husband alone and leave the salesperson out. I wouldn’t have liked it if my husband had done the same thing to me.
I felt bad after but learned something. If I love my husband, I shouldn’t be out embarassing him in public. Period. Live and learn. And oh yes, love!